Wash day used to feel like a chore, but once I simplified my routine, my curls started thriving. I focus on cleansing, nourishing, and air-drying with love — no heat, no stress. In this post, I’m sharing my exact 3-step wash day routine that keeps my curls soft, defined, and healthy. These are also the products I personally use (Amazon links below).
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Step 1: Gentle Shampoo (Cleanse without stripping)
I start by wetting my hair completely and using a gentle shampoo. I focus on massaging my scalp with my fingertips to lift dirt and buildup. This helps stimulate hair growth and keeps the scalp clean without drying out my strands.
Tip: If you have a lot of buildup, do two shampoos — first to remove oils, second to cleanse.
Product : L’Oréal Paris Elseve/Elvive :
Step 2: Deep Nourishment (Mask or Conditioner)
After shampooing, I squeeze out excess water and apply a rich hair mask from mid-length to ends. I detangle gently with my fingers or a wide-tooth comb. Then, I leave the mask on for 10–15 minutes while I do my skincare or relax.
Pro tip: Cover your hair with a shower cap or towel to trap heat — it helps the mask penetrate deeper!
Product : Shea Moisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Mask :
Step 3: Condition + Air Dry
Once I rinse out the mask, I apply a lightweight conditioner to lock in moisture. I gently scrunch out the water with a microfiber towel or an old T-shirt (never rub, as that causes frizz!). Then I let my curls air-dry naturally for softness and bounce. If I need my hair to dry quickly, I use a blow dryer on low or medium heat with a diffuser.
Pro tip: Don’t touch your curls while they dry — wait until they’re 100% dry to fluff them out.
Product : Remington Pro Wet2style Hair Dryer :
FAQ: Answering Your Curly Girl Questions
- Q1. How often should I wash my curls?
Every 5–7 days is perfect for most curl types. Too often can dry your scalp.
- Q2. Can I air-dry every time?
Yes! Air drying keeps curls healthier long term — just avoid touching them while drying.
- Q3. What if my hair gets frizzy?
Frizz usually means lack of moisture — use a creamy mask weekly and avoid rough towels.
- Q4. Do I need leave-in products?
If your curls feel dry, add a lightweight leave-in or curl cream before air drying.
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Unfortunately, some of the products I buy here in France aren’t available in the US, so I’ve found the best similar alternatives for you.
(For example, the ‘Elseve’ brand I use is sold as ‘Elvive’ in the States!)
- 🛒L’Oreal Paris Extraordinary Oil Nourishing Shampoo or 🛒 L’Oreal Paris Elvive Dream Lengths Curls Shampoo and Conditioner
- 🛒L’Oreal Paris Elvive Extraordinary Hair Nourishing Oil
- 🛒L’Oreal Paris Elvive Total Repair 5 Damage-Erasing Balm
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