Hydrated, Shiny & Happy Hair
Okay, confession time: I always suspected winter was doing something to my curls, but I never actually looked into WHY. I mean, I always felt something was off after summer ended. My hair would get dry, the ends would chip off like crazy, and for YEARS my hair stayed the same length no matter what I did. I just thought “well, this is my hair I guess” and kept winging it with whatever shampoo was in the shower.
But here’s the thing โ I’ve spent the past 5 years actually paying attention to my hair (we’re talking mid-back to almost butt length nowโฆ okay fine, it only looks that long when it’s wet because curly hair shrinkage is REAL). And honestly? I was being lazy about the seasonal stuff.
So I did the research so you don’t have to! As a stay-at-home mom who started this blog because I genuinely love everything hair-related, I wanted to figure out why our curls struggle in winter and โ more importantly โ what we can actually DO about it. If MY hair was stuck at the same length for years due to damage I didn’t understand, maybe yours is too?
No complicated routines, no expensive products, just real solutions that work. Ready to level up our curl game together? Let’s go! <3
1๏ธโฃ Gentle Cleansing: Wash Without Stripping
The winter rule: less is more.
Cold weather already pulls moisture from your strands, so over-washing becomes your curl’s worst enemy. I’ve cut back to washing 1-2 times per week, and the difference is huge. You’ll hear a lot about “sulfate-free only!” but I’ve stopped stressing about that. I use whatever works for my scalp and hair texture. The key is finding something that leaves your hair clean but not squeaky or stripped. If your scalp feels good and your curls aren’t tangled after washing, you’ve found your match.
๐ซ๐ท For my French curl friends:
- L’Orรฉal Paris Elseve Shampooing, Aprรจs-Shampooing & Crรจme sans rinรงage โIl nettoie dรฉlicatement vos cheveux tout en les hydratant ร chaque utilisation.
๐บ๐ธ For my US-based curlies:
- Garnier Fructis Curl Nourish Sulfate Free Moisturizing Shampoo, Conditioner + Cream Defining Butter Set โ Perfect if your hair feels dull, brittle, or starts breaking in winter.
๐ก My Secret Trick:
Add 2-3 drops of oil (jojoba, sweet almond, or even olive oil from your kitchen) directly into your conditioner before applying. This simple hack makes any conditioner feel twice as luxurious and leaves your curls noticeably softer.
2๏ธโฃ Deep Hydration: Your Weekly Spa Moment
If I had to choose just ONE thing that transformed my hair from “stuck at the same length for years” to actually growing? Weekly deep conditioning masks. This is the game-changer, friends. Once a week, that’s it. Not complicated, just consistent.
My Go-To Masks
๐ซ๐ท France:
- Shea Moisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Mask โ Mon indispensable de l’hiver. Le miel de manuka hydrate intensรฉment sans alourdir les boucles. (Mon prรฉfรฉrรฉ habituel, le L’Orรฉal Elseve au jojoba, est introuvable en ce moment.)
๐บ๐ธ United States:
- Shea Moisture Manuka Honey & Mafura Oil Intensive Hydration Mask โ Ultra nourishing for winter. The manuka honey deeply hydrates while mafura oil adds shine without weighing down your curls.
After applying your mask, wrap your hair in a warm microfiber towel (I heat mine on the radiator or in the dryer for 30 seconds). Leave it on for 10-15 minutes. The gentle heat opens your hair cuticles, allowing the treatment to penetrate much deeper.
๐ก Pro tip: No microfiber towel? Use a plastic bag (like a grocery bag or shower cap) to lock in your body heat – works just as well.
3๏ธโฃ Leave-In & Seal: Lock In That Moisture
Here’s what I learned the hard way: adding moisture without sealing it in is basically inviting frizz to the party. The LOC or LCO method (Liquid, Oil, Cream or Liquid, Cream, Oil) – I know it sounds fancy but it’s literally just the order you put products on. That’s it.
My Winter Combo
Leave-In Cream:
- Cantu Curl Activator Cream โ Defines curls beautifully and adds slip for easier detangling
- L’Orรฉal Paris Elseve/Elvive Defining Care Cream โ Lightweight but seriously hydrating
Sealing Oil:
- A custom mix of castor oil + jojoba oil (use tiny drops only โ a little goes a long way!)
Here is jojoba oil which is my favorite oil + the US equivalent
๐ Application Secret:
Apply these products on damp hair, not soaking wet. I gently squeeze out excess water with a microfiber towel first. Your curls will clump better and define more clearly this way.
4๏ธโฃ Protect Overnight: Wake Up With Soft Curls
My curly friends, if you do nothing else from this guide, at least do THIS ๐ Before I learned about satin, I was waking up with a bird’s nest every morning. Cotton pillowcases = friction = breakage = my hair staying the same length FOREVER.
My Nighttime Routine
- Satin pillowcase โ protects your curls even if you move around (because who stays still all night?)
- Satin bonnet โ extra protection for your ends, which are the oldest and most fragile part
- Soft scrunchie โ if you pineapple or braid, never use those tight elastic bands
๐ค Refresh Trick:
Before bed, lightly spritz your hair with a mix of water + a pump of leave-in conditioner in a spray bottle. This “refreshes” your curls overnight so they look even better in the morning.
5๏ธโฃ Extra Love: Scalp Care & Holiday Shine โจ
Don’t forget your scalp! I used to focus SO much on my ends that I completely ignored my scalp. Turns out, cold weather constricts blood vessels up there, which can slow hair growth.
๐ธ Scalp Massage Routine (2-3x per week)
Warm up rosemary oil or peppermint oil (diluted with a carrier oil) between your palms. Use a scalp massage brush or your fingertips to massage in circular motions for 5 minutes. This:
- Stimulates blood flow
- Promotes healthier growth
- Feels absolutely amazing (seriously, try it!)
โจ Holiday Shine Boost:
Got a holiday party or special event? Add a tiny amount of curl glow oil or shine serum to your ends before heading out. It catches the light beautifully and gives that “magazine-ready” finish.
๐ Gift Idea: Curl Glow Oils
Treat your curls โ or surprise a friend โ with a touch of shine this season โจ These oils make perfect stocking stuffers or Secret Santa gifts!
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๐ Moroccanoil Treatment โ The OG cult favorite, argan oil-based.
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๐ Olaplex No. 7 Bonding Oil โ Lightweight, repairs damage, adds shine.
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๐ก Tip: Add them to your cart now โ they sell out fast during the holidays!
๐ Final Thoughts: Keep It Simple
Listen, I’m not going to lie and say I do this perfectly every single day. Life happens, especially as a mom. Some weeks I’m on top of my hair game, other weeks I’m just trying to remember if I even conditioned ๐ Curl info can be SO overwhelming. Everyone says something different, there’s a million “rules” that contradict each other, and sometimes it feels like you need a PhD just to wash your hair. But here’s what I’ve learned: even small changes make a HUGE difference. My hair went from being stuck at the same length for literal years to actually growing and – more importantly – looking healthier and feeling softer.
Even if you only:
– Deep condition once a week
– Sleep on satin
You’re already protecting your curls better than I did for most of my life ๐
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๐ See also : The Satin Pillowcase That Saved My Ends ๐











